Things People Say That Are Signs of Cheating

Few people get into a relationship with the specific purpose of committing adultery. However, the distressing truth is that adultery is a reality for far too many relationships.

So, what can you do to avoid having your heart broken? The first stage is learning the indicators that your partner is cheating (or at least thinking about it).

For instance, you'll want to be careful if they're growing overly curious about when you'll be home. And if they accuse you of being paranoid, they could be gaslighting you to cover up their own guilt.

One technique to deflect guilt is to blame someone else and make them doubt themselves.

"You're being paranoid."

Ironically, how often your partner accuses you of cheating—another gaslighting tactic—is a good indicator of infidelity.

3. "I know you're cheating on me!".

Be careful if your partner wants to spice up the bedroom.

3.Why not try something new in bed tonight?"

This is a lovely thought. If your partner suddenly wants more physical intimacy, they may be trying to make up for their adultery.

4. "Can you hold me?"

"Often someone who is cheating is feeling a lot of guilt," adds Ricciardi. "Your partner can easily take this shame on you by making you feel bad about yourself."

6."How did you mess up dishwashing?"