Emotional indicators of infidelity

Do you suspect that your partner is involved in an extramarital affair? Determine whether or whether he is exhibiting any of the warning signals that have been described by Raymond B.

Green, a private investigator and former police officer, and Marcella Bakur, a psychology professor at Marymount Manhattan College.

The following is a list of the 32 indicators, both physical and emotional, indicating your partner may be having an affair:

The cheater feels guilt early in the affair. The interest will fade as the affair continues.

1. More responsive than usual.

Your lover buys "guilt gifts" to make up for betraying you.

2. Gives you several gifts.

If so, trust your intuition. Ignoring them is denying reality. You know your partner's habits, rituals, and attitudes best, so be wary when they change.

3. Suspicious behavior.

Doing this provides a pretext to get upset and storm out of the house and thus the possibility to meet a lover. Due of confused feelings about betraying you, a cheater may do this.

4. Fights you often.

He or she is happy when leaving you yet melancholy when around you. If your partner has a long-term affair, they will try to maintain both relationships.

6. Gets moody.