You've learned from past hurts that any love relationship needs open communication and that one person hiding things from the other will always cause conflict.
You've learned the hard way that anyone who violates your boundaries or tries to change them disrespects you.
From your past experiences, you know that no amount of time, energy, or affection you give someone will change their mind about loving or accepting you.
Through prior hurts, you've learned that trust is essential to a partnership. Without it, there will always be uncertainties, arguments, and unresolved issues that make you uncomfortable
You know from experience that your sentiments are real and that anyone who tries to make you feel less for them simply wants tranquilly for themselves.
You've learned that ending a poor relationship is harder than staying in one, but it's the greatest choice for your happiness and will help you feel like yourself again.
You've learned from your grief that you may love and wish someone well even if you don't want to see or talk to them.
Despite sadness, realise that the wrong person may make you feel lacking because they don't appreciate your value like your forever person does.
Past hurts taught you that you control how you spend your time, energy, and body.
You've learnt from past hurts that you're not stupid for falling for a con artist who seems to care about you, and that they should be ashamed.
You've learned from past heartbreaks that you can love someone you've never dated, possibly even more than your exes.
You may gain strength from your experience that exhibiting emotion is courageous and that your openness should be applauded, not criticised.